I can’t tell you how many times I’ve tried to lose weight and get fit. At least 6 or 7 just since my son was born 15 months ago. I usually last all of 3 days…literally, THREE DAYS. What usually does me in is one bad meal that makes me feel like a failure, even though I know deep down that one bad meal does not ruin all of the progress made. Prior to getting pregnant, I was fit at 123lb. After I had my son and began nursing, it took me TWO DAYS to reach my pre-pregnancy weight. Then I stopped nursing. I gained ten pounds overnight. Ten ugly loose-skin flabby pounds.
Well, this time, I’m on DAY 5 (DAY 4 with exercise), and I haven’t given up yet! In fact, I’m feeling very motivated to keep going. All it took was for me to get past those first few days. On day three, I lost a pound. On day four, I lose another. This morning, Day Five, I’m down one more. I just had to get past day three and see results to realize that it was working. Here is exactly what works for me.
Using the app MyFitnessPal.
This app can be used on an iPhone, Android phone, tablet, or computer. It’s a calorie tracker. However, due to the large audience this app has, I find that it has far more foods and workouts in its database. Just about every restaurant (with the exception of small town family-owned ones) is in the database. It includes workout classes like Les Mills classes in its exercise database. You upload your weight and it charts that progress. It keeps track of water intake. You start off by entering in your current weight, goal weight, amount of daily activity, and how many pounds you want to lose a week (between 0 and 2). My starting weight was 133 and my goal weight is 115. I want to lose 2lb a week and am “lightly active”. Based on all of that information, it gives you a daily calorie goal (mine is 1,200). When you exercise, it adds to that. I burn an average of 300 calories a day, so I usually can eat closer to 1,500 calories a day. The app will also send reminders at meal times so you don’t forget to log. Every time I have used this app, and actually used it, it has never failed me in weight loss!
My past few attempts at becoming fit have involved me going to the gym and just doing my own thing. Treadmill, elliptical, stairclimber, ab machines, etc. etc. etc. My problem is that I get bored. Ten minutes on one of those machines and I’m tired of going nowhere and staring at the television. Growing up, I was always an athlete, so staying fit for me meant getting down and dirty at practice and running trails until I was drenched in sweat. Naturally, the treadmill just doesn’t cut it for me. As of a few days ago, I made better use of my American Family Fitness gym membership by attending a class for the first time (they are included in the membership). I started with Zumba, which was the most ridiculous thing ever, at least for me, considering I can only dance when I’ve had about five margaritas. This morning, I did Les Mills CXWorx, and that was more my thing. Calisthenics with resistance bands and weight disks. Classes that have varying moves and routines are just what I needed to make the most of my gym time. I used to leave the gym after 30 minutes from boredom. Now, I’ll do the one-hour class and want to go hit the cardio section! If you have a friend to join you and motivate you, it’s even better!
Cutting the Junk
Seriously, STOP EATING JUNK. And drinking. I literally only drink water or tea now, and I use Mio to flavor the water if I become bored of that. And when I say tea, I mean herbal tea–not McDonald’s sweet tea (my former addiction that I’m still battling). Sometimes I sweeten the tea with Stevia, an all-natural sweetener. I use the liquid squeezy kind (that looks like a Mio bottle). My husband isn’t quite as enthusiastic about the healthy eating (probably due to the fact that he can eat whatever and still have abs), so I often make a meat to share and my own side dishes. For example, he wanted homemade wings last night, so I made those and only ate 4 compared to his 10…12? Then, they had fries and watermelon. I made seasoned roasted carrots for myself, along with the watermelon. His 600+ calorie meal was only 300-400 calories for me. I usually eat a breakfast around 200 calories, lunch around 300, two snacks of 100-200, and dinner around 500-600. And as long as you drink water/tea, drinks are ZERO 🙂 It’s hard to resist at first, and on days 1 and 2 I felt like I was starving, but by the end of day 3, my stomach was starting to shrink back to a normal size and was satisfied with 1300-1500 calories. Sometimes I get sweet tooth cravings, so I make my snack a 100-calorie chocolate granola bar or something.
One of the biggest things that goes hand in hand with calorie control is portion control. I am a meat and potatoes girl, so this is hard for me! For breakfast, I’ll eat some sort of whole grain for energy and a fruit. Lunch, I’ll eat protein, veggie, and a fruit. And then for dinner, I try to keep my meat portions around 3-4 oz., my grains 3-4 oz., and then double up on veggies, which are typically very low in calories. When we go out to eat, I order both sides as veggies and then I share with my son. When he eats his little one-year-old portion, it usually leaves me with the perfect portion sizes! (And then he eats “free”, which is the best part).
The best tip for how much water to drink is .5 oz for every pound you weight. So, if I way 130, I should drink 65 oz. of water today (approximately 8 8-oz. glasses a day…or 4 water bottles a day). I often drink that much, and a little more.
A Support System
Like I mentioned, my husband couldn’t care less about whole grain pasta and scarfing down veggies. Although I don’t hold it against him (it’s ultimately his body), it really makes it harder if the people in your house aren’t on board. Thankfully, my little one prefers raw veggies over mac-n-cheese any day! I’ve found that a virtual support system via social networking works just as well as a real one! Post your workout or meal pictures on Instagram with hashtags about fitness, eating clean, and weight loss, and you’ll get lots of support. As desperate as it sounds, with each like and each “Way to go!” comment, you’ll feel more and more motivation.
Most importantly, just do what works for you! Everyone’s body runs differently, so naturally, everyone’s “get fit routine” will differ. Experiment with different healthy diets and exercise routines and find which ones give you the best results!